noticed

this is what i noticed...i now have set up some lines when interacting with people. i used to be very patience when the others were in their egoist status. but now i have low tolerance for any type of self-center behavior. and i will no longer sit there and calmly waiting for them come to sense. i walk out of it.

Ba zi

learning this now.
back to the college, i actually paid some attention to this area for a while.. i don't know why that i left this one out. it is the most important one in that category yet it took me so long to think about dig it deeper..i do hope i learned this earlier (and many other categories earlier.) ..or not at all. i paid too much attention to the useless things already. make me cynical and lazy, and too optimistic.