surrender

To the universe's perfectioness. Stop efforting.


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self-esteem: is to protect one's own deepest truth, to know one's own most inner feelings.

self respect: is to pay attention to inside of one's own heart. No need to tell people why to choose to do something and with what reasons. No need to prove to others your own value system. The heart is effective and correct, no need to analyze and question it.


自尊是指维护你最深的真理,知道你内心最深的感觉。它不是让人主宰,而是要让你自己主宰自己的感觉。

自重是指注意你自己的感觉如何。你不需要告诉别人你为什么选择做某些事的理由。你不需要向别人证明你自己的价值。你的感觉是有效力而正确的,不需要去分析和质问它。